Thinking of Masks
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This is the way I used to think about masks:

Halloween kids wearing masks to transform themselves into magical characters, my mother hiding behind a mask of cigarette smoke, my youngest daughter’s vehement fear of masks and clowns, the masked Lone Ranger riding to the rescue on his white horse Silver, thieves wearing them when shooting up a liquor store, ladies at costume balls with sparkling masks to create intrigue, and raccoons, those four-legged bandits whose natural masks and plump striped bodies make them incredibly cute.

And TODAY…

It’s August of 2020 and we are wearing masks all over this country (and the world) to save lives, ours and the lives of others around us. We walk our streets, enter our businesses, get on busses, and into cars, shielding ourselves from others to keep the killer COVID virus at bay.

There are rules posted everywhere. Health officials spoke and they told us this is the correct and necessary plan to mitigate this pandemic along with distancing and hand washing. After five months of confusing messages and our incompetent federal governing, we have epic suffering and almost 5 million cases in this country.

Should we be listening now (finally)?

I can’t speak for others exactly, but I imagine that in the hearts of most people in our communities there is compassion, concern, and a sense of heightened responsibility toward our fellow beings. At the same time sadly a fierce resistance has shown up, triggered by political views and a seeming need to stand up for our individual rights. And, to those people, I ask: what is the most sacred of our human rights?

Yes – it’s the right to life – to have a life. When I put on a mask I feel many things: I have the sense of being separated from my fellow humans, I feel sad I can’t see people’s smiles, their innate friendly selves. I feel sorry for the dogs who, like mine, are often agitated by all the masked bodies walking among them, sometimes I am annoyed at my glasses fogging up, and I feel a sense of responsibility… I do not feel resistant.

There’s urgency all around us in this country as we collectively mark this terrible point of being at the top of the list in numbers of cases worldwide, and this urgency says we can change the course of this plague if we all do our part. The important word here is ALL. We must listen and follow the scientific wisdom, to create change, and to heal the wounds of our painful divide.

Our collective human spirit is formidable.

We just have to stop each day before we enter the world and ask ourselves how much we value our own life, the lives of all we know and love, and the lives of those unknown to us. How do we feel about our world?

What is wrong with standing up for healing and future life for all?

Warmly,

Mag

Mag Dimond
Taking A Final Bow This Thursday, Will You Join Me?

“Writers Coming Together,” which is taking its final bow Thursday has been an unexpectedly exciting and inspiring ride!

I’ve dipped into spiritual tomes, philosophical biographies, atmospheric detective mysteries, first novels, intimate memoirs, and classic academic works, in search of unique insights about writers, the writing process, and the writing life.

I’ve talked to wildly different thinkers from Brooke Warner to Joseph Ranseth – all of them writers who have important truths to share and lessons to teach.

(Join me for the final event at 1:30pm Pacific on Thursday, right here.)

  • When I began this program back in May, my goal was to bring people together around a subject that is very close to my heart – writing.

  • And through these months we have come together and built an expanding community of listeners (more than 20,000 views)!

  • It seems that during these times of isolation and dramatically altered lives everyone is hungry for dialogue, idea sharing, and community.

  • My hopes are that participating in this has reminded all of you who are following me of our common vision to be readers and writers and thinkers, and to cross over the borders in life to speak the truth.

It has been a great “ride,” I have to say, and I’m delighted to announce that I’ll be launching my very own podcast on related (and expanded) themes this coming fall.

We’re calling it The Bowing to Elephants Podcast, and we’re anticipating a rich new array of inspiring guests!

Watch my website magdimond.com for all the news! I now bow in thanks to the following people who have accompanied me on this journey: Ben Gioia (without whom I could not have engineered this project), Jack Kornfield, Brooke Warner, Betsy Fasbinder, Nita Sweeney, Peter Elbow, Joseph Ranseth, David Kundtz, Ilene English, Sean Murphy, Cindy Rasicot, Michelle Cox, Suzanne Sherman, and Lorraine Ciancio.

Each and every one of you has not only expanded my vision of a discussion program but has reminded me of the richness of the creative mind and life. Much gratitude to you!

Can’t wait to welcome you back in the fall!

Warmly,

Mag

Mag Dimond
Letting Go of Something Good To Create Something Great!
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In COVID times — not to mention every moment of our lives BEFORE the virus — change is always happening.

It’s what brings the dawn and invites the butterfly to emerge from the caterpillar.

Sometimes it’s easy.

And sometimes, change can just be tough.

Yet it’s RELIABLE.

Which can be wonderful, when we practice holding it all as lightly and lovingly as can be…

I’m watching the changes of Writers Coming Together as I see these amazing guests before me and we delve deeper into books and craft and our insatiable need(?) to WRITE!

so it’s writing I do

and speaking about it, too

My guest this week is Suzanne Sherman, Thursday at 1:30pm Pacific. Join us live, here.

Her Girlhood in America - Personal Stories 1910 - 2010 is a collection of first-person stories of young girlhood across 100 years. Here are poignant, entertaining rare views from the days before electricity to the times girls led anti-bullying campaigns at school.

Developments in culture and highlights from pop culture open the chapters, tracing an influential century. Suzanne is a writer, book coach, consultant, memoir instructor, and editor, and you can find out more about her, here.

Warmly,

Mag

P.S.

My guest this week is Suzanne Sherman, Thursday at 1:30pm Pacific. Join us live, here for the second-to-last Writers Coming Together.

As I wrap up this series next week, I’m letting it go with love and creating the space for my new podcast this fall!

Mag Dimond
Planting The Seeds for My Podcast in the Fall
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As we’re coming into the last three episodes of Writers Coming Together, I’m getting ready for what’s next.

(After some downtime in August…)

As you may know, Writers Coming Together is an author discussion series for book enthusiasts, writers, poets, meditators, and lovers of narrative & craft…

And I’ve realized that I’m going to create a podcast based on my wonderful experiences of speaking with an array of amazing authors!

Please join us here at 1:30pm Pacific, Thursdays through July 30th. You will get inside the minds of one-of-a-kind, award-winning authors from around the world in a space of community, connection, and creation!

And, you’ll be part of the seeds that get planted for this fall’s podcast!

Enjoy!

Warmly,

Mag


P.S.

My guest on Thursday, July 9 is Cindy Rasicot.

Cindy Rasicot is a retired Marriage Family Therapist. Her life has been a spiritual journey that took on new dimensions when she and her family moved to Bangkok, Thailand for three years. There, she met her spiritual teacher, Venerable Dhammananda Bhikkhuni, the first fully ordained Theravada nun⎯an encounter that opened her heart and changed her forever. This deepening relationship led to writing her memoir, Finding Venerable Mother: A Daughter’s Spiritual Quest to Thailand, which chronicles her adventures along the spiritual path.

Mag Dimond
20,000+ Views So Far, Join Me for the 8th Writers Coming Together
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Somehow, we’re suddenly on show number eight, tomorrow with Ilene English, author of Hippie Chick!

(Time does indeed fly when it’s not dragging sometimes while social distancing…)

If you’ve not seen it yet, Writers Coming Together is an author discussion series for book enthusiasts, writers, poets, meditators, and lovers of narrative & craft…

Please join us here at 1:30pm Pacific, Thursdays through July 30th. You will get inside the minds of one-of-a-kind, award-winning authors from around the world in a space of community, connection, and creation!

I’ve had such pleasure speaking with a wonderful array of writers!

You can watch the replays of the interviews by clicking on the names below.

Jack Kornfield, May 7 — Founder of Spirit Rock Meditation Center, and author of more than a dozen books on Buddhist practice, Author, andone of the key teachers to introduce Buddhist mindfulness practice to the West.

Brooke Warner, May 14 — Brooke is publisher of She Writes Press and SparkPress, president of Warner Coaching Inc., and author of Write On, Sisters!, Green-light Your Book, What's Your Book?, and three books on memoir. She’s a TEDx speaker, cohost of the weekly podcast “Write-minded,” and the former Executive Editor of Seal Press. She writes a monthly column for Publishers Weekly.

Betsy Graziani Fasbinder, May 21 — Betsy is a genre-jumping, thrice-published author with a novel, a memoir, and a how-to to her credit. She’s garnered a Gold IPPY Award, a Booklist Starred Review, and a few other blingy congratulations for her writing. In addition to her own stories, Betsy delights in helping others write and tell their own, both as a writing coach and a speaking coach. She features the stories of others on her weekly podcast, The Morning Glory Project: Stories of Determination.


Nita Sweeney, May 28 — Nita is the award-winning author of the running and mental health memoir, Depression Hates a Moving Target: How Running with My Dog Brought Me Back from the Brink and coauthor of the writing journal, You Should Be Writing. Nita coaches creatives in writing and meditation, blogs at Bum Glue, and publishes the monthly email newsletter, Write Now Columbus. She lives in central Ohio with her husband, Ed, and their yellow Labrador retriever, Scarlet.

Peter Elbow, June 4 — Author of Writing Without Teachers and Writing with Power, Professor Emeritus, UMass Amherst. Directed the Writing Program there and at SUNY Stony Brook; taught at four other colleges. His first book was Writing Without Teachers; the last of eight was Vernacular Eloquence: What Speech Can Bring to Writing. Given NCTE award for “lasting intellectual contribution.” CCCC Exemplar Award.


Joseph Ranseth, June 11 — As a speaker, author, and transformationist for over fifteen years, Joseph has been helping people transform their lives and organizations using the same blueprint and principles that transformational leaders like Gandhi and Dr. King used to change the world. He has been a featured expert on national television, including Fox News, CBS, CTV, CBC, etc. in leading industry publications, such as Advertising Age, and has been recognized several times by the Huffington Post for using social media to inspire the world.

David Kundtz, June 18 — David Kundtz, S.Th.D., M.F.T, is a speaker and author of 7 books including the bestselling QUIET MIND: One Minute Mindfulness. David began as a Clergyman — for 20 years — then established a psychotherapy practice in Berkeley, CA for 20 more. David's Ph.D. is in pastoral psychology with graduate degrees in psychology and theology. A former Director and Presenter of Inside Track Seminars, David has sold more than 113,000 books around the world (in English, Spanish, and Japanese).

Please join us here at 1:30pm Pacific, Thursdays through July 30th!

Enjoy!

Warmly,

Mag

Mag Dimond
You Say You Want to Write a New Book?

Writing is a trying and difficult activity, calling upon one to translate deeply held thoughts, feelings, and visions, into digestible, relevant, inspiring and entertaining narratives for the public.

 

-You have to figure out what is deeply important.

-You have to discern who will care about what is deeply important.

-You have to carve out relentlessly necessary amounts of time to put your message on paper.

-You have to summon great courage, for writing is a brave act.

-You have to struggle vs. any number of hindrances like:  self-doubt, laziness, fear, resistance, and confusion …

You have to do all of this ALONE mostly.

 

ALONE IS HARD.

 

During this surreal time of an epic pandemic and terrifying civil unrest, I’ve chosen to write a second book with the support of a remarkable writers’ group I know well. Good or bad timing? 

And as I sit and try to assess my “goals” for this somewhat formless project, I see the urgency to push ahead come into clear vision.

Why urgency?   

I’m not getting any younger, and I’ve just been through the publishing of a book that was happily well received – and therefore I need to flex those creative muscles again to make sure I still can write while I have the time.

During the time of isolation and loneliness what has come into sharp focus for me is that I have many worthy ideas and I know how to write terrific prose (assuming I sit down and actually do the work!).  And it feels somehow necessary for me to get these ideas out there.  I am worth listening to.

Writing puts me in touch with my best self, or so it seems to me.  Does it make me happy?  A lot of the time; I especially like watching words fall across the page, as though I’m riding on a stream of thought and emotion towards some as yet unknown end, patiently waiting to find the form I need.

 

What can I do for this fluttering heart so I can keep telling my story?

 

-practice lovingkindness and mindfulness both of which strengthen self-care, fortify against doubt

- sleep and eat well

- reach out to loved ones and to fellow writers

- laugh, walk the dog, and watch the wild birds

- create a refuge for my work – a place dedicated to writing

- return regularly to my one seat where I open the door to that inner voice that needs to pour out words

LISTEN TO YOUR OWN VOICE  -  the carrier of your gifts to the world

 

Simple sounding, but not really (of course).

Worthwhile?  Absolutely.

 

Even in my darkest loneliest hours as I deal with the impermanence of this human incarnation, I have my own authentic voice to listen to as it shows me who I am…

Blessings to those who travel this road with me.  May we all continue to listen to one another.

Mag Dimond